I received this letter last week from a Butler Community School client. She asked to remain anonymous but agreed her letter could be shared. Check out what she has to say:
I am a workout dropout. I have started a new exercise regimen at least 50 times in my life. I am only 31. You do the math. My question for you is this, “where does motivation come from and how do you keep it?”
I stood outside Ballet Austin a few months ago and watched an exercise class going on through the large window to the downtown world on 3rd St. The people inside looked like ordinary people; both men and women of various ages and sizes. I was intrigued. I decided to be brave and venture inside to check it out. I learned it was a Ballet Fit class. I heard the music of the Beetles and Adele playing, and the encouraging words of the instructor. People who looked like me working out at a ballet barre, great music, smiles, even laughter. I could do that! I had been looking (once again) for a workout that I would stick with. I know exercise is beneficial and that I should do it, but with all the activities that fill my daily life – work, family, and hanging out with friends – there is little time left for exercise. (At least that is my excuse) Honestly, I guess I choose to go home and chill rather than work out. I don’t always make it a priority.
But I made the commitment to take a Ballet Fit class and loved it. I couldn’t walk the next day; could hardly get out of bed to be honest. The funny thing is that the body ache is actually what made me want to go back. I bought the $99 Introductory 1 month of unlimited classes. Because I paid for it I went as often as I could during that month; you know, get the most for my money. Then the month ended. In my head I knew that I just had to purchase more classes to continue, but I didn’t. I loved the class and how my body felt. I thought about continuing, but I did not. I was annoyed with myself, because once again I became a workout dropout. What can I do to get my motivation back and keep it?
A Frustrated Workout Dropout
Dear Workout Dropout
You are not alone in your frustration. And while most people feel great after working out, and know the facts about why they should exercise, it is often not enough to motivate most individuals to keep it up. In fact, research shows that 50% of people who start an exercise program will drop out within the first 6 months.
Motivation is a funny thing. I am not sure where it comes from. Does motivation come from within a person or from external influences? Probably a combination of both. I actually don’t think your problem lies in the area of motivation. The very fact that you have re-started your exercise regimen over 50 times means you have a pretty good dose of motivation. Good for you! You could have given up, but you started again. Here’s what I think. Stop thinking of it as 50 times you have dropped out or quit. Turn that around. Shift your thinking from couch potato dropout mentality to fitness savvy mentality. Think about all the new ways and places you have discovered to work out and the people you have met along the way. By nature, humans need change, variety, and a sense of enjoyment or fun to stay motivated. The reality is that very few people find one way to work out and stick with it the rest of their life. It’s sort of like food. When I discover a new food that I love, I am hooked. I will eat that food every day if it’s available. But eventually I am stuck in a food rut. The orignal love has worn off. I need a change. Nothing wrong with that. I am on to the next favorite food.
Change your perspective and think about all the possibilities there are for you to pursue when it comes to working out. Maybe you haven’t even scratched the surface.
So ask yourself, “what’s next?” Listen to your inner voice when choosing the workout that suits you. If a hip hop class satisfies a passion for dance and you get a workout, then dance! If hiking fulfills your love for the outdoors, then hike! If it’s the music and encouragement of a Ballet Fit class that keeps you going, then head to the barre.
What will your next workout be?
Let me know
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